1. BE YOURSELF. BE SINCERE
You don't have to try to be perfect. Better be yourself. Many of us live in masks, afraid to show people the present, and, firstly, it is very tedious, and secondly, it interferes with honest and simple relationships.
It is very important to be sincere. Don't be afraid to reveal feelings to your partner - this is your closest person. If something bothers you or something is missing, say it. No one can read your thoughts, and the first step to solving the problem is to talk about it.
2. LOOK POSITIVELY AT LIFE
Maintain a positive attitude towards life and do not allow your partner to lower your nose. Be optimistic, because no matter what happens, the main thing is that you have each other. You can joke about failures, laugh together, draw conclusions and move on!
3. BE EMPATHETIC, SUPPORT EACH OTHER
Let your partner feel your support. Also pay attention to the desires and needs of your partner. You have to accept that it is neither your reflection nor your property. Treat his desires other than yours with understanding.
4. SHOW YOUR BRIGHT FEELINGS
It's important to keep reminding your partner how much you admire what they do for you. Thank you even for small actions. You don't need to take all the good things between you for as a matter of course.
More often, let feel to your soul mate that he is special to you.
5. GIVE EACH OTHER FREE SPACE
Two people cannot and should not be together 24 hours a day 7 days a week. Do not resist the hobbies of a loved one and do not give up your hobbies yourself. It is no need now to sacrifice them to a relationship.
No one will appreciate this.
6. RESPECT EACH OTHER
You need to respect the opinion and decisions of a loved one, even if you disagree with them. You need to respect his friends and family.
Don't forget about respect, even when fighting. The clarification of relations is often accompanied by mutual reproaches. Be careful with words. You will cool down, and the insult will already be voiced. No matter how you apologize after an argument, harsh words will leave a scar on the soul of a loved one.
7. KEEP JEALOUSY OUT OF HEARTS
Try not to be jealous - you thereby confess to your fears of being abandoned, in complexes, in self-doubt. There is no need to express accusations and get your soul mate jealous - you are very offended by the distrust of a loved one. And you push him to what you are so pathologically afraid of.
And if a loved one is jealous of you? Try to calm him down: more often show that we love him, make a kind joke about his fears - let him see the absurdity of his fears.
8. TAKE EACH OTHER AS YOU ARE
Do not try to change your beloved, accept his features and habits, because these little things make him unique. And you certainly shouldn't be offended by a loved one because of its peculiarities. And if the habit is bad and getting rid of it is only for the good - you can always calmly discuss what you do not like and adjust.
9. CREATE MEMORIES TOGETHER
There is nothing that makes you more close to each other than shared experiences and memories. Travel, dance lessons, snorkeling, taking part in competitions - more often do whatever you find exciting and fun together.
Fill your life with something bright.
10. TURN LIFE INTO A FAIRY TALE
Surprise your partner with nice little things. Try to bring some novelty to the relationship more often.
Surprises, kind notes, pleasant signs of attention, small holidays for two for no reason - please your loved one, create a romantic fairy tale, season your daily life with love.
11. SPEND TIME WITH A LOVED ONE
Don't be distracted when you spend time with your loved one. Work and everyday worries take too much time, and therefore when you are next to your loved one, turn off the TV, put your phones aside and enjoy each other.
12. DREAM TOGETHER
Work on goals together. Think, fantasize what you would like to achieve in 5, 10 or 20 years.
And do not set goals based on generally accepted ideas about happiness and success in society. Focus on what will make you and your loved one truly happy.