Typical timid and shy guy would say: "There are lots of girls that I do know and see every-so-often. But I procrastinate to ask them out because I really don't know them that well. And the opportunity for approaching and having a chat with them would rarely ever present itself. The nicest girls who I'd like to go out with are in relationship or simply not interested."

First, I think that you should not be hard to yourself. Happiness will surely shine in your life. You need to be a bit patient it may that you have not up to now got the correct one but she will surely come.

Don't be so disappointed!!!

You probably already have an outgoing personality, so that is not the problem. Your self-esteem might be the problem. First, work on what makes you unhappy.

Even as you do this, you can widen your social circle by simply meeting more friends. If you are easy to get along with and have no problem talking to girls, who are polite and funny, you should be able to at least start meeting new people, which leads to dating.

Remember that if you are interested in someone, it doesn't have to start with something as heavy as a date. Start by simply getting to know the person first, to determine if you like her enough to ask for a date.

Girls like cocky and outgoing men. If you can make them laugh that would be your first advantage over most of the competition. If she chooses you then it would have been a culmination of things that she will have found attractive about you.

The key to being successful with women is to be confident and to have good interpersonal skills. In order for you to develop speaking confidently to girls you will need to practice.

To this extent speak to as many girls or women that you can. The more you are exposed to talking to different women of all age groups the better you will become at it. I know that it will be difficult since you are shy but you have to push that barrier.

Also remember that to give is better than to receive. Learn to give your time, attention, love etc without expecting anything in return and you should notice a significant difference with the way that people especially girls will see you.

The things that you can do for yourself is to continue gain self respect and make your character strong. In regards to your mental well being you will need to train your brain to shut out negative thoughts and emotions. The best way to do that is to fill it up with positive thoughts and emotions. A great way to do that is to learn and experience new things.

Feel confident to ask me, and I will definitely give you a prompt help:)

Your best friend in need and indeed!

Julia