⛔️Avoidance of "serious" topics on the first date
One of the traditional rules recommends not to discuss serious issues on the first date, and this applies to politics and religion, as well as the desired number of children. If these questions are important to you, it is better to clarify them right away. Just try to keep the conversation light and move on to them in the second half of the date.


⛔️Rejection of an imminent re-meeting
Games won't be the best option if you're looking for a deep relationship. If you refuse, believing that it is too frivolous, then it will not work out. If you want to meet, agree to the offers of a partner, as long as they do not run counter to your own plans.

⛔️ Avoid talking about your ex
One of the well-established rules for dating "no talk about the old" also needs to be revised. It's perfectly fine to mention a breakup or divorce, as long as you don't dwell on the subject for too long. Focus on the lesson you've learned from past relationships and don't talk about how unlucky you are with men.

⛔️Rejection of a relationship if a spark did not immediately run between you
If you believe in love at first sight, then most likely you will be left alone. The same applies to the belief that you should only date those with whom you immediately feel attracted. If the first date went well and you have a lot in common, from hobbies to fundamental values, give your partner another chance. Heaviness may appear when you get to know each other better, but you should pay attention to even the slightest manifestations of it.

⛔️ If he pays, he feels like a man
Some men feel humiliated if they don't pay for everything, while others will be offended by your unwillingness to share the costs. Therefore, this rule must be violated after the first date. Don't make too much of it, and if he pays for dinner, you can pay for drinks or coffee.


⛔️ Always choose men of a certain type
Forget about the rule that you only date men who match your fantasy image of Prince Charming. Even if you don't go on a second date with someone you don't like, learn to focus on things like shared values ​​and emotional compatibility.



⛔️ Don't count on being the only one after a certain number of dates
You can meet a person at a bar, online, or at a friend's place, but you should never assume that you are the only one with him. There is no set number of dates after which a relationship can be considered serious, so if you want to practice monogamy, discuss it openly.

⛔️ Don't rely too much on other people's opinions
If you feel you must consult a friend or mother, break this rule. The opinion of the person you love is always important, but first, establish a real connection with your partner.