I submit that it is. That's why it's important to bring passion and intimacy into the everyday corners of your life instead of saving them for the bedroom, vacations or romantic outings.
Easier said than done, you say. Well, maybe. But it really doesn't have to be that difficult. Here are a handful of simple yet effective ways to bring passion and intimacy to the everyday:
• Pursue a new hobby together. π¨β·β½οΈ
It could be wine tasting, a high school sports team you follow closely or reading the same book and discussing it. Do something together that enhances your knowledge of a subject and of each other.
• Exercise together. ποΈβοΈπ§π»βοΈ
Walk, run, do sit ups. Be a support partner for each other and acknowledge any small gains made for getting healthier and sexier. Consider showering together.
• Touch each other 10 times a day. πβ€οΈ
It could be anything from a kiss to a pinch, but the understanding is that this is not going to lead directly to sex. It's just a way of physically connecting with one another.
• Plan, prepare and cook a meal together. π©π»π³π³β€οΈ
You'd be surprised at the sensual punch cooking a meal together can have. And, of course, you get to enjoy it with each other.
• Schedule a sex date. ππ―
Planning for sex builds up excitement, expectation and desire that normally just isn't there when you crawl into bed at 11 p.m.
• Put a lock on your bedroom door. ππ
This is particularly important if you have children (or adult children) still at home, or even a dog that's used to having the run of the place.
• Set a moratorium on all sex for several weeks or even a month. πβπ₯
That doesn't mean you can't continue touching one another and talking about sex. You just can't have sex. The sheer act of prohibiting something makes it all the more enticing.
• Be realistic about the time sex takes to accomplish. β°π
We all have busy lives and likely are exhausted by days' end. But, don't let the sex act take on unrealistic proportions. After all, it probably takes only about 10 minutes from start to finish for most people.
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