18. Send each other letters
"Even if you live together and see each other every day, send your significant other a letter by mail," advises psychotherapist Nina Rubin. In the era of digital technologies and continuous communication, paper letters symbolize something special. A cute message can get lost among hundreds of others, and an important phone call will remain in your memory. A letter is physical evidence and a symbol of your love. "If you can't send it, leave the letter in your pocket or put it in the chosen one's car," added Rubin. The idea itself is important here. Imagine your partner finds a love letter in their car. This will cause no less emotional reaction than if he received it in the mail.
19. Set aside time to reflect on your day
You can constantly ask each other how your day was, but you will get routine answers in return. Get closer to your other half and make sure you have time to consciously discuss your day and all the emotions. "Exchanging daily experiences promotes communication and emotional closeness. It also helps to cooperate and solve problems together, reducing conflicts to a minimum," says professional teacher Richard Horowitz.
20. Make a board with plans
If you represent a shared future with the chosen one, a great way to get closer is to buy a board on which you will write down your plans for the next couple of years. "Visioning a shared future is another powerful tool for bonding and building a solid foundation for your relationship," says Cordo. You can write everything there, from the type of house you want to buy to the events you've been dreaming about all your life.
21. Go for a couple's massage
If you're having a rough week and you feel like your partner has taken a backseat, there's nothing better than a massage. "Many people say that it not only relaxes well, but also gives both lovers a sense of carefreeness, closeness and care for each other," Zuckerman notes. When the session is over, you'll feel better about your body and ignite a spark between you and your significant other.
22. Learn your partner's love language
Everyone has different ways of expressing their love. "Some prefer to spend more time with their chosen one, while others feel a strong bond only if their partner helps them around the house," says Chlypala. It is important to learn the language of your partner's feelings so that you can better feel their support. Deep down, your significant other knows that you love and care for her. But sometimes he may need you to make an extra effort and show that you understand what he needs from you. If you take the time to learn about your partner's desires, ultimately you will both feel in harmony.
Sometimes it can be difficult to find time for your significant other, but the routine should not keep you apart. Try using one of the methods or even several to always stay in touch with your loved one
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