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Friendship versus love
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A very small percentage of people understand this, which is why there are sad statistics of family relations. The number of divorce proceedings is growing rapidly, and, consequently, the number of children growing up in single-parent families is growing. Unfortunately my situation is as follows(
Some people do not consider it a significant problem that a child has one active parent, but, one way or another, there is little good in this. Firstly, the child lacks an example of a whole family. Secondly, education becomes one-sided. And if the marriage is held for the sake of the child, it will not lead to anything good either...

Today we will pay attention to the type of love relationship. Although no matter what kind of love we consider, it will in any case be closely related to the friendships that generate love. But about everything in order.

No matter what some people say about the benefits and comfort of loneliness, a person always remains SOCIAL. Each of us needs communication, because it plays a huge role in the formation of the psyche, cultural and behavioral qualities. As a result of communication, interpersonal relationships arise, which will be discussed.

What can be attributed to the type of relationship "FRIENDSHIP"? It's hard to describe in a nutshell, because people often confuse friendship with varieties of communication (personal, motivational), I think it's worth putting everything on the shelves.

Friends are always open to each other, trust their innermost thoughts, without fear that their feelings and desires will be ridiculed and put on public display.

Agree, it's unclear why the hell you need a friend with whom you can't talk heart to heart, share sadness and joy, alien to strangers.

Friends always have common interests and hobbies. It is very difficult to call a person a friend if you have nothing elementary to discuss. At the same time, friends don't have to like, for example, the same movie. In this case, the key word is film, because they are still arguing about tastes.

Friendship is based on deep mutual understanding. I think many people have noticed that good old friends understand us at a glance and are even able to predict our thoughts and actions in a given situation. Personally, I find out by one greeting what mood my close friend or girlfriend is in at the moment.

And most importantly, "Using a friend" is not typical for friendships. Yes, friends help each other, friendship is often useful from different points of view. But they help not because they expect something in return, but at the behest of the soul, because they are pleased to do it.

As for the type of relationship "LOVE"?
If we interpret friendships more or less close to the true meaning, then everything is much worse with love. Some consider it their duty to sacrifice their interests, the aforementioned friends and even their own jaw for the sake of a "loved one". Others are ready to beat to death an old lady from a nearby entrance if she prevents fanatics from distributing cartridges to their idols.

Sorry, I got a little carried away… So, about love.

Love is a feeling, an art and a kind of relationship.

Love is a positive relationship that does not allow blind worship and submission to a person. I would generally say that love is friendship, plus a couple of special points in it. After all, this mysterious feeling is the peak of human relations, the highest, so to speak, their point, originated from the depths of friendship.
A loving person will not make the object of his sympathies suffer. He will join his lover's hobbies and share his interests with him. Love relationships involve self-improvement and spiritual enrichment. Respect, mutual understanding and trust, devotion and care — isn't this a sign of true love?!

A person who loves someone never behaves cruelly with other people, because loving, enriched with love, he shares an excess of feelings with everyone, which is expressed in the kindness and responsiveness of a loving person.

And yet, anyway, love was, is and will be a feeling more spiritual than physical, and after all, the spiritual rapprochement of people begins with friendly relations, right?

It is impossible to build a strong, happy family and raise offspring with dignity without mutual respect, understanding and devotion. It is impossible to build a solid life thinking only about your own interests and personal comfort.

All this is in front of your eyes. It remains for us to draw conclusions.

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