One period of my life I realized that my past and present relationship reminded twins , cause they developed the same scenario that was not ended with happy end. I felt at lost and listened to advice of my friend to go to psychologist. I was lucky to meet a talented specialist… And with her help I managed to realize that the problem why my relationship developed so bad was not because I met alike type of men, but because in all my relationship I followed the same model of behavior.

… Ev. Day I came to my work where I kept under control a lot of processes , commanded people. During the whole working day I was under pressure that I was the main wheel that made the whole process move…And when I met with my boyfriend after work I continued control him, control and command…
So My problem was that I couldn’t separate work and personal, private life ... And the solution was so easy I needed to live role of boss, working issues at my working place and the moment my working day finished and I went outside I needed to turn on the role of fragile, romantic woman whose role was to present love and care to her man and enjoy the same things and even more in return or any other role that would be appropriate to my invironment)) . Now I do not mix work and private life. I’m single still, but my friends have already mentioned changes in my behavior and have confessed that they have liked finally to see smooth and feminine side of Darina)
It doesn’t mean that I play some role and I’m insincere…Just every person is multifaceted and in different situations we express ourselves relatively to the situation… Maybe some of us like to tell naughty jokes and your friends know you exactly like such kind of guy) That is good))) But if you are a teacher you can’t behave the same with kids as with your friends… the same goes with relationship) So we should cultivate our multifaceted personality, not get stuck on the role of boss, house wife, cynical person, always happy or sad…
And you know when I mention that I am somehow bringing role of boss role in to my personal life again, I go to the sea , breathe air, let my mind rest from thinking…I just enjoy the moment… It is maybe like a meditation…but we all need at times to spend time in silence , to go to nature… to spend time with our dearest and nearest people , with our family, dog , cat… we should take a pause to check if we move right direction… to feel our nature again and more acutely)
So, you should know that you can see Daria boss only if you come to my work or we will be in the mood to apply such role game in our bedroom;) And in our relationship mostly we create our unique world of love and happiness, care about each other… and yes lets be playful at times to add spice;)
I wish everyone to meet a person with whom you feel free to express your personality, let this process will be mutual, exciting and enjoyable !!!

Daria