Emancipation is a fashionable word which means the equality of genders. There are more and more women in today’s society who are proud of their independence, earnings and goals they achieved. And without question being successful is very important but it would not be right for a woman to sacrifice everything for the sake of this success.

Feminine energy is a giving type of one, therefore, once a woman spends all her energy to reach success, it’s hard to imagine what she will have left for her partner. We know a lot of examples when a man doesn’t want to decide anything on his on own alongside a strong woman and the same man changes at a drop of the hat, becomes active and decisive as soon as he get involved with a weaker woman, which is very sad and not fair cos strong women deserve to be happy as well. But where is the way out of such situation?

I have never been able to understand the concept where a woman has to conquer the man she likes. On one hand there’s nothing wrong if a woman lets a man know that she likes him, asks him for a lunch or a romantic dinner in a restaurant, calls him from time to time to ask how’s he doing, suggests to go out together. On the other hand, I have never heard from the couples I know and who are really happy together for a long time that their relationship started due to the efforts of a woman. Only a man who’s really interested can bring joy to the life of his beloved lady. He tries to wonder her every time and she feels happy seeing the way he treats her.

Perhaps there are life stories where they got together due to her efforts and after a little while he fell in love with her and may be they will even remember some dignified actions he made for her, but most likely there will not be much of them, cos if the initiative didn’t come from him from the very beginning it means that she kind of made him like her. And that’s not what we’re looking for in this life.

So, where is the way out for us, single ladies? What shall we do? Shall we just do nothing and wait until a man we dream about comes to us? Of course, not! But we always have to remember that a woman has to remain a woman and a man has to be man. And if we change roles it can lead us to very undesirable consequences. We can be whoever we want at our jobs, courses or other activities but when it comes to a relationship we should let a man to be strong and initiative and never forget about what we can offer him: beauty, grace and lady’s charm.

Lena