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She got married a few years ago. The husband lived with his parents before marriage in their house. In the three-room apartment of his parents lived his sister with her son, her third husband and stepson. After the wedding, the question of where we would live was never raised by the husband and the husband's parents, and I did not raise it either. Our income is average. I got pregnant, my parents had a plot of land before, and my father, with my husband's approval, began to build a house for us at his own expense. My husband's parents did not help a single penny, my husband was not interested in construction at all, my father built the house completely himself, we only chose wallpaper, furniture, etc., everything was done with my parents' money. His sister and her husband, living in that three-room apartment, for 10 years of living together did not even make elementary repairs there, the bathroom was shabby. But they bought an expensive foreign car, it was very well-groomed, hung with gold, constantly bought new clothes, a mink coat, an iPhone, etc., went on vacation abroad, and all this on credit. Then his parents sold the apartment, and his sister bought herself a house in another city, where she left with her husband. At the moment, we are divorcing him, because I can no longer tolerate his consumer attitude towards me, his bullying and scandals, he constantly raises his voice at me, nothing can be discussed with him, but he goes to his parents every day in the evenings, and in one of the weekends spends the whole day there. During the divorce, my husband asked me for housing, since he believes that I kicked him out, and he was left without housing, arguing that he worked on the site, sometimes his father helped with the housework there (the house is registered to my parents, as this they built it). To my answer that I fed him, served him, he just shrugged his shoulders. Of course, we don’t have money for an apartment. In addition, he is not going to share or sell a new foreign car (bought only with my income, by the way), he says that the car is his, he does not want to pay alimony, since he needs to arrange his personal life, and I don’t ask him for them

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