I really enjoy these blogs and the thought that goes into them. Some seem to be
written with what is popular or what you think others want to hear. Others seem very sincere and revealing.
Sex is an important part of a real relationship; but when should it start. I learned a saying when I was a boy that says, any thing to easily gained is too lightly esteemed. And so it seems with sex. I think sex is a treasure to be cherished, not an object to be abused.
Men are in general all for sex any time or place. They rarely can tell the difference between Love and Lust till after sex. If a relationship is not built on mutual love and respect it has little chance of success.
Knowing each others good and bad qualities helps make valued judgments and takes time. A good definition of a friend is; A friend is a friend with no shame knows all your faults and don't give a damn.
It is a rare thing to find a friend, an even greater mystery to find the one who can be both friend and lover for life.

Just a few thoughts form an wishful still hopeful cowboy.