Love is beautiful. We cherish her, we dedicate tearful poems and tracks with a powerful beat to her. But all of us, taught by life experience, are afraid that all this euphoria of love will end. There is only one question - when? It is traditionally believed that love lives for three years.
First, a year of passion, then a year of tenderness, and finally a year of boredom - this development of events awaits every couple, according to this myth. By believing in him, after three years we can convince ourselves that love has passed. And something must be done. And what? Search for a new love, reanimate the old one? Hormone-regulated love is directly related to a couple's sex life.
But love is not only sex, it is also communication between partners. Relationships become a comfort zone for a person. When the level of trust between partners is high enough, a loving relationship can last much longer than three years. In fact, love has no statute of limitations. Love may not last long. And love is something that is born by joint efforts. The efforts of understanding, acceptance, respect and faith in a loved one. This feeling lasts as long as you are willing to make these efforts, because this is really our conscious choice.

How to extend the life of love?
The easiest way is to take into account that in any actions of the partner lies a positive intention. As a rule, a person tries to do "what is best" in his world. It is not a fact that this will coincide with your world. And that is why empathy is so important in order to determine the central motives of a partner. In everyday language, to understand and accept a partner with all his nuances. And if this great happiness happened to you, you hear and understand not only what your partner says, but also what he really feels, you will live long and comfortably together. And yet, there is such a technique where you collect the bare facts of what is happening, unemotionally, like recording a video camera from the side. This allows many conflicts to be easily resolved, and most often not lead to conflicts at all. This also affects the long-term nature of your relationship.
Love can live for many years, but the duration of its life depends entirely on the joint work of partners.