ive met so many women on this sight , and i feel sorry for alot of them but im just one guy, and i hate to see anyone get hurt, but i want all of you to know you can find happiness if you look good enough and be honest about what you want, and i think it should be very clear if you plan on living there or coming to usa, to live, each man has to make that decision too;i think sex on the first date should be based on how both people feel about each other,any time there is chemisrty between two people usually sex is involved too.and with all the women on here, i just hope you can find that special one for just you, ive found one now i just have to make sure she is in love with me too and is she going to come here with me, i wish you all the best of luck on your searches, and ill keep you posted on what happens, bye for now terry w