A divorcee with a trailer - that's what some people call me, but I call it - a woman who can choose. So why am I demanding?
1. My maternal instinct has been realized a long time ago, which means I have nowhere to rush. 🤷‍♀️ The biological clock is not ticking, forcing me to look for a more or less suitable candidate for the role of my child's father. I don't care about motherhood at all. Even if I don’t give birth to a third child, then it’s okay. There is someone to leave honestly acquired.
2. A child is a great filter for men. When I say that I have a child, you can immediately discard those comrades who, in principle, are not able to take responsibility. They begin to say that it would not be bad to meet and live with me, if only the child lived with his grandmother.🤦‍♀️
3. If a man tells you that he took you with a child, then it is better to think about whether it is worth continuing the relationship. What does take mean? As if he did a favor, like Are you a second-class woman? 😤 It was not he who took it, but you accepted him into your family of three.
4. When a man does not initially try to establish a relationship with a child, you can be sure that this desire will never appear in him. Once, I thought, like many women, that over time everything will work out, they will become friends. 🤗No shit!!! You will rush between the two. And in any case, you have to choose, otherwise doubts will eat your soul.
5. I'm not in a hurry, like unmarried girls who are driven from all sides by their tactless questions about marriage. 🤧 I can choose a man slowly, weighing all the pros and cons, while remaining a happy mother and woman.