believe me being married to the wrong woman or even man can be a nightmare all its own, and thats why i tell you ladies to make sure of what you do really want, and just makes sure your both feeling the same way, so far ive only been on here about a month and a half, and if she,s serious i might have already found my mate but i do know anything can change at any time, till its actually done, but i will say the women from russia are so pretty but also seemed to have more real morals then our ladies in america,im really surprised when even the youngest of the women there are so serious about true love not just sex, so far here that seems like tats all the omen want they dont want marriage, or any long commitment, to find that right mate just for you, is a long shot, and you do have to take chances even when you think all is good,but you know now days so many people are pulling so many tricks you have to really be careful on what you do, and see who is real. and are they really serious about what they say they want, before you can get too serious about them. to be with someone that doesnt really want you there is a bad feeling and to lay down at night with them and you can almost feel the hate they have for you, when your married for many yrs and raise kids and dont have much more in common then that , you lose interest very quickly, and then your days and nights seems so long, this is one kind of life you want to try to avoid at all costs, and you girls thats 18yrs old you might want to wait awhile before you try to get married for life, your lives, are just starting, and another thing too; if you marry someone that doesnt like sex as much as you can turn your marriage into a disaster real quick. and if your a real young girl you might need sex alot more aften, me im just a guy that likes sex alot, any time, and my ex could get by maybe four times a week, now i ask you if you ladies liked sex alot and your spouse told you wait two or three days and you might get it, haha what would you do, no surprise i didnt cheat,but to live that way for yrs and to not even like going places or shopping or even camping or to beach gets pretty depressing fast, no she is married to a preacher, i did have some good kids,well good luck to all of you,and i do wish you all the best of your search terry w alias lil hank'