Why do so many people live with a sense of the importance of other people's opinions in any decision in their own lives?
What will mom say? Wouldn't Dad approve? Will people give you a dirty look? And people will whisper behind their backs...
And that's when a person leaves their true desired path.🧭 Giving in to their desires, in favor of someone else's well-being. In seeking the approval of others, one loses one's identity.
At this point, self-esteem tends to zero. No understanding of his own aspirations and interests. What matters to him is not his own comfort, but the approval of others. 🧠 The brain does not give a chance to feel the response in the body to the situation, on the contrary it starts throwing up so many options 💭 unfavorable consequences, judgments, other people's opinions, in the head immediately come up lines of acquaintances 🤔 ...

‼️And a person, bowing his head, acts from the position of "the neighbor Baba Masha will judge"...

Without enthusiasm, 🫥 without interest does what society would consider "normal", the main thing is not to differ much from others...
Fear to show itself😱, to stand out from the crowd, the feeling of danger of the world, can stop a person, but here it is important to start just to act... little by little 👣 ...appear differently in some little things...

And then you will notice that the world has not pounced on you with judgement and is not affected in any way by your actions.🕊️ Gradually you will be able to accumulate enough statistics that the world is not so dangerous, and that your individuality can be accepted by other people without the world collapsing in the process.