Girls, first of all, please convince yourself that no matter how successful the date is or not, this is just a small episode in your life and you definitely shouldn’t get upset or fall in love at first sight.
So, in order for communication to be mutually beneficial and interesting, you only need three reactions to male speech: sympathy, attention and observation.
At a meeting, smile at a man and give a friendly look, sympathy. Believe me, the man also feels insecure.
Ask about his work and what he does.
Ask simple but restrained questions. Work is an integral part of the life of any person and everyone goes their own way to a certain position or profession. Ask questions: Why did you choose this particular area? Where are you going and what do you want to achieve? etc. This topic is interesting, voluminous and it will immediately characterize your man as a person. Just do not interrogate how many hours he works and what his salary is.
- Hobbies, hobbies and the theme of relaxation.
Find a common interest or passion and discuss. If a man is fond of, for example, cycling, like you, ask him for advice, ask his opinion, and so on. Or mention hobbies that you are attracted to, but you have not yet figured out. A man will be very pleased that you are interested in his opinion, then the topic will develop and become more interesting.
- Talk about childhood.
Yes, no matter how funny you think it is. An adult man who talks about his childhood is wonderful. Plus, this is a great way to bring a man into an interesting conversation and get closer. Especially if you have minutes of silence and you can’t think of a topic to continue the conversation. This is the best moment to start the story first: “Oh, I just remembered a funny situation from my childhood. Now I'll tell you…”
- Taste preferences.
Everyone loves to eat and for some reason many underestimate this topic on a date, but in vain. Having discussed this, you will immediately realize how much you have in common.
-Jokes and fun life story
You can joke with a man on a first date, this increases your chances of mutual sympathy.
Remember men at any age, like teenagers, love when they are sincerely interested.