A little about healthy relationships - a few basic and very simple points, the knowledge of which can prevent years of almost "useless", and for some, destructive relationships.

1. A strong connection with his "male" in a man and a strong connection with his "female" in a woman.

Under favorable circumstances, this connection is laid in relations with a parent of a kind, in a boy - with his father, in a girl - with her mother.

From this connection, an understanding of one's role as a man and one's role as a woman is born.

Healthy relationships in a couple begin primarily with roles - the role of a man and the role of a woman.

Connection with one's gender gives knowledge (I would call it intuitive knowledge) about the values, norms and characteristics in male and female behavior, lifestyle, way of thinking, established communications, which represent a person depending on his gender.

2. Relationships start with us, not with a partner.

Before you enter into an adult and mature relationship, it is important to know and decide on these kinds of questions - Who are you? What are you? What is your point? What do you want in this life? What is important to you?

This is where the similarity principle comes into play.

What you are - so will be the partner.

3. Partners are always equal.

Otherwise, the relationship will sooner or later "break down".

I will immediately emphasize that this is not about equality of rights and about feminism.

Partners are always equal - that means they are equivalent and equivalent to each other. They/- with slight deviations coincide on the emotional, intellectual, mental levels, in terms of their financial capacity.

We all consist of different energies (I don’t like this word, I couldn’t find another), we all need different things.

Qualitative relationships are possible when two "digest" each other according to this very energy, that is, according to their content.

About a healthy relationship or a man and a woman for love.

Nothing and no one can replace a person of those emotions, those special sensations that a person can get only in a pair with the opposite sex.

In our age of information technology, and at the same time the physical and emotional detachment of people from each other, the importance of the topic of relationships between a man and a woman is growing rapidly.

A man and a woman for love are, first of all, about healthy, close and deep partnerships.

A healthy relationship is when there is mutual acceptance between partners, there are real real emotions, common goals, where two develop, where two see each other, and not just look at each other, where you can easily say what you think, what you feel It's easy to ask for something.

A healthy relationship is a living relationship, not a wild passion or a sluggish "36.6".

A healthy relationship is that quiet buzz at the level of sensations and feelings, which is available only when the two really "matched" on several levels.

A healthy relationship is when it's good together, but sometimes different things happen. Then the "different" is solved jointly, by joint efforts, and not separately, and each on his own.