Women live by feelings: we need to talk about it. The scale of our tragedies doesn't matter: a broken fingernail or a scratched car. We NEED support in that moment and to be listened to.

Men are rational. The magnitude of their tragedies can never be guessed from their facial expressions. And all they need at such moments is to hide in their den. Not to be touched. Not to be asked. They need time to process and consider in silence.

The example of us, so different...
Think back, girls, to situations where you've been painted wrong, had your nails done wrong, eyelashes done wrong, etc. That's it! A disaster! And the more girlfriends found out about it, the easier it is for us! Women can't help but share. Can't keep quiet. We go home to our man. He tells us, "Take the money for new nails and redo them." And we are offended! We didn't want money, we wanted him to say: "Yeah, I know, it's a disaster of epic proportions." 😁 And the man sincerely does not understand the essence of resentment: because his brain is tuned to find quick solutions, not to talk. He thus WANTED to HELP.

And now a similar situation with a man: a flat tire on the road. Have you ever seen a man on the road running by his car and calling his friends to tell them what happened to him right away? - I never have. What does the man do? - Takes the jack and changes it. If he's not in the mood, he curses. All 🤷🏼♀️ And if there is a woman around who urgently needs to ask a couple of questions, irritation and a fight are assured. Because he wants to get over this misunderstanding WITHOUT saying a word.

To come to a mutual peace, where understanding and love reigns, we must learn not only to take, but also to give.

We, women, must leave the man alone, give time and space, not wind ourselves and him up with questions: "don't you love me anymore?" when he has real problems.

And Men should understand that everything is important to a woman. And, preferably, to listen about it 😁