It is necessary to live in pleasure. Enjoy life... yourself.
Sometimes a person really misses sex.
Sometimes some other puzzle is missing (for example, a creative hobby, or mutual love with friends, relatives, children).
But...
After all, when a person lacks a piece for the fullness of happiness, then his mouth turns black. It turns black in the brain ... In the soul.
And they try to capture others with their "blackness".
The person thinks that I'm sad and I poop on others. Like that character Klaus from the book by Yaroslav Litvin "The Year of Debauchery of Klaus Otto Bach", who called the police when the neighbors were having sex. Because of envy. What is good for someone, someone rejoices. And he, Klaus, is not.
I will also say: when a person does not allow himself to do something, to enjoy something, he begins to call names to those who simply live and enjoy and do not think about how it will look and how it will sound.
Do you want to enjoy life with me? Everything will be fine... Will you come for me?