I believe that finding oneself first of all means that one holds a certain worldview according to which one lives. I must say that any profession must be fun, and nothing else. If you go to work thinking "once again, the same thing, and how bored I am with everything," it will only be an irritant, but in fact the work should be a recreational activity, for which you can also get a reward.
It doesn't matter what the goal is in life: to get a decent education, to create a cozy home or advance in your career, it all depends on the life plans of the individual. Most importantly, going in the direction of the goal, we are developing spiritually, improving ourselves, and eventually gaining harmony in the soul.
Finding a comfortable appearance
For example, each of us has a certain way of dressing or behaving in public. The modern world is full of youth subcultures, which join on the basis of common views and interests. Social status should be reflected in the appearance and the ability to conduct a constructive dialogue.
Summing up, we must say that the search for yourself depends on many factors. Each of us at a young age should determine the values of life, so that in the future not to stray from the intended path and not to face the problems of self-realization.