Many people live as if not their own lives, not thinking about their own needs. But muffled desires, unrealized interests remind of themselves with irritation, neurosis, a feeling that you are not living, but wasting time.

It is for this that it is necessary to return to yourself or to love yourself. This is not as difficult to do as it seems. The main principle is that when making any decision: from what to eat for breakfast, what to wear, to where and with whom to live, be guided solely by your own desires.

Having learned to listen to yourself, you yourself will not deal with those who will criticize and insult you, just to avoid loneliness. You no longer want to suffer for the sake of love. Whether the relationship brings joy - that's what will be the main criterion.

To fall in love means, first of all, to accept yourself and not to look for constant confirmation whether you are smart enough, beautiful, interesting enough. When you no longer need to prove your right to be yourself and seek approval in the eyes of outsiders, you yourself will significantly narrow your social circle. You will be interested even with yourself. And now you will choose friends, like everything else in life.