Interest in another person. You met another man, and it seemed to you that you fell in love. A friend's brother, a new co-worker, just an acquaintance... A spark has run, and you are already together in bed, and it seems to you that some feelings have appeared for this person. Now you don't understand how this could happen. You are looking for reasons of a different nature in this.


Are you forcibly trying to ascribe too high feelings to a small adventure? Or do you see it as love? For people who have been in a relationship for a long time, the concept of falling in love is often confused with passion. Or maybe it was just a craving for the unknown? And try to honestly answer the question, do you want to continue this novel further? Everything is possible, you will think that this is a simple charm, and instead of thinking about a new lover, remember why you once fell in love with your husband.

You feel attractive again. For quite a long time, the feeling has not left you that the husband does not see you as a woman and mistress, but only as the mother of his children and wife. You do not feel attractive and seductive for your husband. And the new man, before whom you could not resist, easily caught your "weak" place. He was caring, passionate and just bombarded you with compliments.

Psychologists believe that two years after marriage, a crisis begins in family life. Hormones are no longer raging, and relationships are moving to a completely different level. Try to answer this question for yourself: “Or maybe your spouse just doesn’t know how to show how interesting and attractive you are for him?”. Think, have you yourself forgotten that next to you is not only the husband and father of your children, but also a handsome man? What do you expect from him and what can you give him yourself?


You needed a jolt. In your relationship, passion has long given way to routine. When you see your husband, you no longer feel butterflies fluttering in your soul. Even sometimes catch yourself on the joyful thought that the husband came home from work later, because he really wanted to be alone. It seemed to you that now life will always go along the knurled road. Suddenly something unexpected happens on a visit or on vacation. An atmosphere full of romance, you are alone, compliments and no one interferes.

It turns out that you did not know yourself from this side. You felt an explosion of sexual energy, so lacking for you. Being with this man next to you, you became temperamental and thought: “Why not?”. With him, you were able to discover new sides of your sexuality. Now try to transfer them to your relationship with your husband. Talk to him frankly about what you expect from him in bed.

Maybe he also wants to change something in your intimate life? Persuade him to go somewhere together. This will help you remember the feeling that connected you many years ago. It so happens that once in a lifetime every person needs a moment of madness. Or maybe it can be done, but without going beyond the scope of marriage?