How to live after cheating on your husband - advice from a psychologist. Having confessed everything to your husband, you will, of course, remove the burden of what you have done. It will become easier for you, but now you will put all the burden on him, but now it will be difficult for him to cope with the situation that has arisen. For your spouse, your betrayal can be a monstrous blow. Everything can be that the hurt manhood will make him leave, even if he really does not want to. Even if he accepts the fact of betrayal, he will still remember him in any new mature conflict. Are you ready for this outcome?

What about children? They almost unmistakably capture the atmosphere that reigns at home. You see how dear their father is to them, they simply adore him. And you know that they cannot even imagine that the family will fall apart. In this case, their own world will immediately break into small pieces, because even any serious crisis in the relationship between parents is reflected in their sense of security. This cannot be allowed.
Try not to show that something is bothering you. In such a difficult period for you, you may experience irritability, nervousness, and a bad mood. In no case should your emotions be reflected on children. Do not allow scandals over trifles. Of course, adults do not always succeed in protecting children from some erroneous decisions, but you can still try.
And there is another side of the current situation. The man with whom you entered into a relationship also has a family. You don't want his marriage to fall apart, do you? Then it is necessary to irrevocably and finally stop your acquaintance. If he has intentions to continue dating, you need to let him know that this topic has long been closed to you. Do not answer his texts and calls. Explain that there will be no continuation of your relationship. Everything is possible that he will also learn a lesson from the situation and return back to the family.