What is it - universal injustice or a feature of behavior that is not as beautiful as it seems? Let's try to figure it out.

1 🧁Overprotection🧁
“Have you eaten?”, “It’s cold outside, don’t forget to put on a scarf!”, “Don’t stay up late, you won’t sleep again!” - innocent phrases that seem to express concern, when abused, easily turn into a terrible tool of hyper-custody.

Healthy romantic relationships are built on the equality of partners and the realization that both of them are adults and independent people.

2 🧁Lack of autonomy🧁
The other extreme of some "good girls" is an attempt to shift all responsibility for their lives onto a man. The portrait of a fragile, helpless woman in need of constant “support” has been actively broadcast in literature and cinema for several centuries.

A significant contribution to the formation of such a model of behavior in girls is often made by parents, raising them as "princesses" and not giving them the opportunity to show independence.

3 🧁Boredom🧁
A very insidious threat even to happy relationships, especially in the case of "good" girls who like to stick to stability and are quite predictable.

When the “candy-bouquet period” is replaced by monotonous everyday life, there is a risk that a man will stop seeing a woman in his usual companion and cool off towards her, having met a brighter and more interesting lady, which can eventually lead to betrayal or breakup.