💥For many, relationships in a couple are more like a tug-of-war competition or an attempt to prove to a partner that he is wrong. Why do the two closest people start to quarrel?
For many, relationships in a couple are more like a tug-of-war competition or an attempt to prove to a partner that he is wrong. Why do the two closest people start to quarrel?

💥Power struggle is a conflict behavior based on the desire to feel a sense of superiority at the expense of devaluing the other person.

💥It is important to understand that in such a relationship scheme, both are always losers.

💥How does it manifest itself?

1 lack of intimacy

2 restriction of access to funds

3 screams with an attempt to "push through" one's point of view or demonstrative silence for days, and sometimes weeks

4 strike in cooking for a partner

💥In order to change the course of action and stop competing as a couple, it is important to sort out the layered pie of feelings inside yourself that cause you to unconsciously destroy your relationship. It is necessary to clarify the frozen feelings from childhood and understand what exactly was missing.

💥After that, begin to see in a partner not a competitor, but an ally who can strengthen you in a pair, and not destroy you.