This is a mysterious, sometimes almost feral dick from the mountain, which from the positive qualities has only a periodic erection, and from the negative - all kinds of weirdness, which not every qualified psychologist can figure out.

A man always takes care of his woman as best he can of course.

No one owes anyone anything, this is the pure truth, but no one owes anything but the actions of a normal man, an adequate, well-mannered man, etc. This has been the way since antiquity: a woman gives energy to a man through sex and in return receives benefits, care, protection for the continuation of the species. If a woman gets nothing, no matter how much she sleeps with her, she will give nothing back. All arguments about this exchange of energies, where both give and receive something from any casual sex, is just an idle chatter in the kitchen. That is why many Casanovas, instinctively, tell fairy tales, promise golden mountains, behave necessarily cool, make everything beautiful, win, not just to "give", but to "give" their energy, on credit, so to speak, for possible future good or gifts. That's why they say - a woman loves with her ears. After all, if you just sleep with a woman, if she is not charmed by you, does not shine, if in addition she has not received anything important, there is no energy from her, it is just sex, gymnastics, warming up, mutual massage of genitals. After this kind of sex you usually do not even call, and certainly do not write books, after this kind of sex you definitely do not create, do not lighten up, do not change, and if you do create, then only full of bullshit.

A man who does not understand the elementary wheel of energy exchange, who ignores the experience of generations of other successful men, is just an ass with absolutely nothing to take from him. So don't look for those with whom you have something to take, but for those who are fascinated by you and want to give back, to make your life better