You need to try to convey what prevents you from living, not to suppress discontent in yourself, covering it up with silence or petty nit-picking over trifles, but to conduct a normal dialogue between adult partners who respect each other.
If something is rejected by the soul, if something is missing or even poisons life, then just say directly: “You know, this hurts me. I feel bad when you do that."
Do not insult, do not blame - after all, a person may simply not guess what exactly brings you into a state of discomfort. We need to sit down and talk.
If you are loved, you are trembling, they will certainly hear you and go forward. At least they will try to put themselves in your place and feel everything with your heart. If not ... Here the conversation will also be useful, because it will dot the and, and you will see that you do not care, and then make a decision. Love is not only tenderness and passion, it is also respect. Respect is deep and strong, which is impossible without dialogue. Innuendo destroys trust and pushes even the most loving in different directions.
Talk to each other about everything: both joyful and pleasant, and painful and annoying.
And you will have peace and happiness.