If a man screwed up, he should be punished. Ugh, bad boy! 😤
If not punished, he will push your boundaries further and further. It's like dog training. Where to bed with dirty paws? 😠
If you endured it once, the second, then now he is already walking without a bouquet, he does not consider it necessary to save you and do things for you. What for? 🤔 If you are so understanding and forgiving. Mother Teresa, no less.
Therefore, if a man promised that he would be on a date with flowers, then we are not silent in a rag, but we ask whether the bouquet wilted along the way, or was the flower shop closed? We don't leave without a bouquet. If the man promised - the man did. Once you let it go - it will climb on your neck. It is necessary from the very beginning to show that a comrade attacked the wrong one, it’s impossible with me.
For men who bring one rose 🌹 in cellophane there is a separate cauldron in hell. One rose, Carl!!! No, well, are you serious? 🤦‍♀️In my opinion, even a student is able to buy 3 roses. If a man needs it, then he will move mountains or, in extreme cases, shoot to the salary of his friends. For beer, some borrow and nothing. It's just a matter of priorities.
Punishment should be proportional to the degree of guilt. If you forgave only for beautiful eyes and because he asked - welcome to the land of Broken Promises. Never appreciate what comes easily.
You must develop a reflex "cant - working out" in a man. At the same time, of course, he can say that you are heartless, mercantile, etc. But the fact remains - good girls are in flight🤷‍♀️
Are there any chances to fix the relationship when you were initially very understanding? Or should you leave?
You can tear it apart and build it again on different conditions, but the question is, can you control yourself and do you have time? It is difficult to change your attitude towards yourself if there were jambs. It's easier to find a new man and play by the new rules.