Those who take the liberty of asking such questions do not think that by asking or advising or even admonishing, they can hurt the person or drive him or her into depression. There are many reasons for this.

-Maybe the woman just doesn't want to have children.
-Maybe she physically can't have children.
-maybe she has a genetic problem.
-Maybe she had a miscarriage yesterday or decided to have an abortion.
-maybe she's already had children, but she's just not showing it off.
-Maybe she has psychological trauma from childhood, her parents gave birth to the second (3,4,5) child, and all her childhood she was busy with her brother or sister, which completely discouraged her from having children of her own.
-Maybe she was raped and is afraid to have intercourse with men, let alone procreate
-Maybe she can't support herself, let alone a child
-maybe she's insecure about her man.
-maybe she hasn't met the one she wants to have children with yet.
-Maybe she doesn't want to have a baby just to please her mother, grandmother, aunt, and society, but she wants to do it consciously and willingly when she is ready.
When the vessel of love and mutual respect between the two is full and the two want to shower their love on the third.

This is a small fraction of the reason why this question or advice about children should be kept to yourself.

I hope this post will open someone's eyes and make them think.