❓1. Question to yourself
For trusting communication with another, it is worth asking yourself a question. This will be the first thing that will help you get to know the other person better: “What am I interested in knowing about this particular interlocutor?” You noticed that he carefully chooses his food, and you became very curious - why?

❓2. The one that you formulate within yourself, but with an appeal to the interlocutor
Start it with the phrase "I'm very interested." This approach will set the tone for confidential communication with another person, which will allow you to get to know him better. Feeling your interest in him, the interlocutor will begin to give out reliable information,


❓3. About the person's name
There is no sweeter sound for us than the sound of our name. In addition to the fact that you should often pronounce the name of the interlocutor in a conversation, you can also ask about the history of his name, for example: “I wonder who you were named after?” or “Who gave you your name, Mom or Dad?”


❓4 open question
In conclusion, I want to propose a question that would be appropriate to ask both in person and in order to get to know a person by correspondence. Prerequisite: it must be open. This means that you formulate it in such a way that it cannot be answered with “yes” or “no”, but only with a detailed answer.