Those who sacrificed everything for their children, and then the children were trapped in overpowering control.

Those who didn't allow or allow themselves what they really wanted. Those who settled for little. They missed out on a lot.

And those who developed humility and composure and then exploded, destroying everything in their path.

And those who took responsibility for everything around them and then resented the lack of initiative from those around them.

And I've also seen women who

who chose themselves,
accepting everything as it is,
and rejoiced with their children and as children,
not idealizing their husbands,
and they weren't afraid to make mistakes,
going their own way,
doing what they loved,
who were happy.

And I saw all of these women in me.
Because there are many women living in each of us. And we can develop and give energy to some of them, and some of them we can just let go.

The choice is always ours!