I have chosen 3 main rules in my opinion:
1. be sure to talk. If you don't talk to each other and discuss all the problems, you will become so distant that it can lead to a breakup. You need to be sure to talk about how much you love the person and not hide it. But it's not enough to just talk about it. Your words should be backed up by action. It is not necessary to go to the stores and spend a fortune on a bunch of jewelry and other gifts. You can prove your love in different ways. Sometimes just a hug, a kiss or a smile is enough. Understand that without communication and expression of your feelings, you can not create a relationship that lasts for the rest of your life.

 2. Hear your woman. Do you know why? Women are very reflective of the family situation. If your relationship has wilted, she will also be wilted. In doing so, the rare woman will be silent. We're always telling you what's wrong and what you can do to make it better. If you're listening, your marriage has a good chance of lasting many years, maybe even surviving to the golden wedding.
 
 3. Work out your family traditions. It's something of a bond that will help you feel like you're part of a whole. If you have something special that distinguishes your family from others, it will be easier for you to live, you will feel confident and a certain sense of security and stability together, which helps and strengthens the relationship. There can be more than one tradition. Choose something that you have been doing together for a very long time. It's sure to please both you and the rest of the household. Perhaps it will be a family feast. And it doesn't matter so much what time of day it is, let it be breakfast...or dinner. Get together, and discuss all the things to do.