I'll be honest, I've experienced it firsthand. Yes, my trust was taken advantage of, but I don't regret it one bit. Many young people think that if your trust is taken advantage of, then you have to shut down, stop talking to everyone and you have to keep everyone at a distance, but that's a big mistake. You have to turn every failure to your advantage, and in this case, you have to use it as a life experience. You start to find out from the first minutes what kind of person they are, why they are trying so hard to communicate with you or trying to show with all their looks "Hey, look at me! I'm wasting my time on you. So you owe it to me," or you start to see people as having good qualities, "I don't mind giving you my time. I'm willing to be with you and support you because you need it."

Look, if you really think that if you once made a mistake in choosing your partner, you shouldn't label everyone as being like that. Several times I've run into men here who didn't want to communicate because I'm young and silly and don't understand anything about people or relationships. And that was the end of our conversation before it had even begun. In this situation, it didn't make anyone feel any better...


That's why I want to say only one thing on this blog: if you've been burned once, you shouldn't close yourself off from everyone else and hang the same pattern on everyone else. I want everyone who reads this text to be able to redefine the word "trust" and be able to give to the person who deserves it, regardless of appearance, age, religion, eye color or hair color. After all, we are all different and have different attitudes to life and to people.