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Insults in love relationships - is this the norm?
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Among the main ones, the following can be distinguished:



- Accumulated anger
When a person silences his grievances and dissatisfaction, negative emotions accumulate, and sooner or later pour out on the chosen one in a powerful stream. The partner may be stunned by what is happening, since he did not even know that something was wrong with his beloved.

- Thirst for self-affirmation
It happens that partners literally howl with each other for the place of leader, head of the family. There is a struggle of dominants, and quarrels lead them to mutual resentment. Most often, men sin with this, since the desire for self-assertion is embedded in them by nature.

- Different social levels of partners
Sometimes love is born in a pair of people with different social statuses. For example, if a woman earns more money than a man, or achieves greater success in her career, while often emphasizing her advantage, then scandals are inevitable. People are simply not comfortable "playing" inappropriate roles for them in a couple.

- Gaps in education
As you know, children adopt many manners and habits of their parents. An adult who grew up in a family where adults often spoke in raised tones and used insults, can use the same pattern of behavior constantly - regardless of how successfully his relationship develops.

- Self-doubt, strong emotional dependence on a partner, jealousy.
Fears often push people to impulsive, thoughtless actions. This is especially true for sensitive people with subtle mental organization.

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