In the modern world everything is faster. People are used to get what they want in lesser time and in better quality. Human interaction is decreasing hand in hand with our social skills. This is what makes dating one of the biggest problems of the modern era. It begins with the great difficulty of meeting new people, in our small existence of school\office\home, it is hard to be exposed to novelties on a frequent basis. Even when you do come across new people, there is the indecision of how to interact with them on the initial level. Finally, after you got yourself a date, the hardest of it all is, of course, how to survive it successfully. Not only young people are frustrated about dating, but also the increase in divorce rates and the easiness of living overseas, creates growing circle of lonely single people who seek relationships and love.

The most important thing to remember is that first of all dating is a game and therefore, should be fun. Some people treat dating as a mission to overcome or as a world that needs to be conquered. We must remember that the consequences of successful dating are mainly the bliss of having another person to be with and enjoy mutual things with; therefore the road that leads to this outcome should be equally joyous and satisfying. If at any point of the process you feel hurt, used or humiliated, there is no point in going on dating the person who causes these feelings.

On the other hand, this world requires certain qualities that are sometimes hard to obtain without practice. Remember that relationship is a game for two (or more) players, so you have to play your part in order to advance the game, but also remain attentive to the other’s moves all along the road.

With the fact that online dating is becoming more obvious all the time, it has more and more pros. Gone are the days of smoke filled bars and clubs trying to get to know someone. Online dating gives you the opportunity to view a single’s profile before you have even contacted them. Getting to know someone from the comfort of your own home is an affordable luxury with online dating. There is no guesswork involved either of whether the other person is single, because they are all single. And they are all there to find a compatible partner.

Arrive home from work, login, and check your inbox. There’s no need to wait until Friday night, or Saturday night to start dating. There are no unsociable hours online, it’s a twenty four hour lifestyle.

With no need to dress up as no one can see what an online dater is wearing, there is no need to spend hours getting ready. Comfort is the only concern when dating online.

Every detail of a prospective date is there in black and white. The things they love in life, their desires, and what they want out of life. An insight into someone’s personality is instantly recognisable.

Once someone has found an interesting looking profile, an e-mail or instant message is all it takes to get some possible conversation going. If the recipient likes the look of the senders profile then an online relationship is ready to bloom.

After getting to know someone the first date can be at that new coffee bar that’s in need of a test. A nice quiet date to continue the connection someone has made online. Or maybe an excuse is needed to try out the new restaurant in town.

Evenings out with friends can be spent enjoying yourself again. There’s no need to spend the night trying to find someone to start a relationship with. You will have a new air of confidence about you. And when all your friends find out the “how’s” and “where’s”, they will soon be enjoying the advantages of online dating as well.

There are 5 essential reasons why single men should use online dating!

How to meet more women than you could possible have time to date. Let’s look at the reasons…

My Reason №1. Convenience!

From the comfort and privacy of your own home you can relax with a cup of tea or coffee, and scroll through an assortment of potential women to meet and date! You can even have a beer or a glass of wine while doing it… Instead of late nights in smoky bars and going home disappointed…and wake up smelling and feeling like an ashtray. Unhealthy, smoky bars are boring and drunks don’t interest you. Then there’s the loud thumping music where you have to shout at each other to be heard. Where at home and in your own time, you can go online and pick a suitable profile to email and organize to meet. So for pure convenience and ease, online dating is the number one place for meeting women! Online dating is a major breakthrough for single men. You can meet women you wouldn’t otherwise ever have the opportunity to meet! Therefore it creates an even playing field for men who otherwise don’t enjoy trying to ‘pull’ women in bars. By learning some basic skills and getting experience, any man can succeed online.

My Reason №2. Not Having To Face Rejection by Approaching Women Cold!

This is a major bonus for guys who are recently divorced, split up and have lost their confidence and experience with meeting women. It is the best way to ease back into the dating scene…

You don’t have to boldly approach a woman in public and get her number for a date. You do it online via email, with no nervousness to deal with at all. And if you contact a profile and she ignores your email, so what? You just move on to another until you find one to meet, easy!

Therefore you are not confronted with your fear of being rejected in public, with online dating.
And if you do get ignored or knocked back, no one knows but you and it doesn’t MATTER. There are plenty more to choose from…

And by the time you meet, you’ve already chatted via email and on the phone so there is no need to be nervous when you meet her for coffee.

My Reason №3. Confidence Building!

You gain confidence by meeting women online and having success with seduction. This is a massive benefit.

Every No means you are closer to a Yes. So if you are not getting rejected, you aren’t in the game!

You HAVE to be in the game!

The confidence you get meeting and seducing women online will lead you to meeting the perfect lady for you. Whether that is online or offline. It’s getting the experience that is important.

As they say, ‘Repetition is the mother of skill.’ :-)

My Reason №4. The Infinite Amount of Suitable Women!

It truly is an infinite amount of women available online to meet. By having such a large pool of single women to contact, there is no need to ever be short of at least one date a week.

It’s just a case of being organized and only contacting local women to make the most of your time.

There will be anything from two to thirty two different sites in your region to join and check out profiles. There are also many NEW women joining everyday…this will continue forever!

So it’s a must for single men to get good at online dating. You can never run out of women to contact. Even if you exhaust one service you can try another. By the time you’ve gone through all suitable profiles to meet on the other service, the original one will have new stock! :-)

My Reason №5. Ease of Finding Suitable Partners!

By creating your own criteria and sticking to it, you can find someone suitable so much quicker than offline. That is of course if they are honest in their profiles… (Which sometimes they aren’t.) :-)

This saves you a lot of time and money by having criteria.

For example, you may not date women with children. You may also not date smokers…

So, the more experience and confidence you get, the more definitive your criteria get.

By narrowing your criteria you can meet some great ladies a lot quicker than if you had dated just anyone who would go out with you.

Also when you approach someone in a bar you know nothing about them. Online you get to know a reasonable amount before you make contact.

This really does increase your odds of meeting suitable partners.

It’s paved the way for you to be comfortable when you are single. Because you know there is a LOT of suitable women online and you’ll be back dating a nice lady sometime soon…

I am sure we are here to find our real online beloved for the rest of our LIFE:) Enjoy your time!!!

Sincerely, Julia