Ok we are all looking for love. It can be found anywhere we go. I don't know about the other guys here but im guessing its the same as real life. 50% of the guys are for real and the other half are looking for easy fun. If a girl will sleep with me on the first few dates i wish her good luck and move on. It most likely won't be a long term thing. This makes the guy a "player". Well this also makes the girl a "gamer". Its the old saying "if she will do that with me so soon who else will she do. Not a nice thaught. Here in usa most girls will but will they do it with me is common thinking. Guess what. We want nice girl we can turn bad. so to speak. I have noticed some girls are online here for days at a time. As i pop in and out during the day, i would guess they get like 4000 mails a day or they are looking for as many guys they can get to pay attention to them. I call them online party girls. It takes a special girl to catch my eye. Those party girls just don't make the cut. I know i don't want alot of mails. I want the right mails. How do i know one from another? I dont at first. Some i don't have to date to know i don't want to. Why would we go 2000 miles to find a girl? I dated a Ukraine girl for along time so i learned a lot. I can say that the men there are idiots, They don't know what they have. Drinking and gambling all nite are not a good trade for a good woman waiting at home. I know where i would want to be. We also love that Ukraine women take care of there bodies to look good for there men. Unlike a lot of the women here. once they get their man they can start eating they say. We do like our women to be pretty and sexy to us. Its what turns us on. Not just the whisper in the ear what you want to do to us. Lets face it men are animils. We do know what we want tho. Dating is a lot like fishing. I was fishing for tuna and i caught a shark. But if i sleep with the shark "gamer" then the tuna is off the hook. Its just not a good match up. 50% would just say i will go fishing again tomorrow and get a tuna. I say get the treasure you are looking for and savor it, the shark will just eat you up. So good luck to all here to find your treasure. Just let the sharks swim. I hope i did not offend anyone just speaking some facts.