One of the tasks of any mother is to be happy. Nevertheless, many people understand happiness as total immersion in the mother's role, neglecting other areas of life. If a bad breakup with a man has occurred in conjunction with motherhood, a woman risks unconsciously, unable to cope with the inner pain, shifting all her needs for communication with her partner to the child. Thus formed a close, long-term relationship between mom and baby, which it will be difficult to break, even as an adult. If a woman turns her own child into a friend to whom she devotes all her time and pours out all of her feelings, then the child develops a responsibility for his own mother's life and happiness, and with it, a sense of guilt. Attempts to build his own family by his mother will be perceived as treason. Children perceive this as a lack of entitlement to love, as it will make their mother feel bad and lonely. Out of concern for herself and the child, a woman would do well to build relationships in society, with other adults, so that the child, when she grows up, can leave and build her own separate life.
In general, a woman with a child has slightly less chance. To be completely honest, the number of men who are willing to consider a woman without a child as a partner is higher. Further down, the number decreases, but it is not reduced to zero. A woman's position in society is changing now, and she is able to support herself and her children. This is becoming the norm. Having children does not mean that it is impossible to build a new relationship, it means that you have to make an effort. You have to be active, go to places where you meet new people, make friends, travel, see friends. As a rule, difficulties in building a serious relationship are not related to the presence or absence of children, but to the inner beliefs and limitations of a woman.