When I start talking about the healthy relationship between a man and a woman in a family, that is, about mutual trust, support, love and joint development, there will definitely be someone who will say:
"Alona lives in illusions", "This does not happen! »,« Take off the rose-colored glasses! " and so on...
Adult relationships require work, effort and effort. Sometimes - painful changes and tension. And of course, not everyone is ready for this.
Besides, we have no one to imitate. Our parents, people around us, friends - I'm afraid most couples don't set a very good example.
These are divorces, conflicts, tensions, and if life is together, then it is one that you do not want to imitate.
In the relationship between a man and a woman, the man has the role of protector, support and head of the family. But, unfortunately, not every man can cope with this seemingly simple task.
As a rule, girls are taught from childhood that the key to a successful female life is a successful marriage. While boys, on the contrary, are assured that love is not the main thing in life and that he will meet a huge number of such girls on his way.
It is from here that certain formulations of serious relations between a man and a woman originate. Attitudes are laid in a man's brain, with which he often has to live his whole life. These attitudes gradually acquire a hidden at the subconscious level fear of serious relationships and fear of responsibility.