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CALL US BY OUR FIRST NAME.  
While we are not yet so close that special nicknames arise between us, we would like to hear our name more often. It emphasizes interest. Otherwise, we begin to suspect that you are wary of accidentally calling us by another woman's name. Don't call us the standard "baby" or "pretty girl."
Why it matters. Saying our name becomes a symbol of a man singling out a woman. This is especially important at the beginning of a relationship.
As the relationship develops, the couple spontaneously develops their own affectionate references, a kind of lovers' code designed to emphasize the bond. In this case, the unexpected rejection of the accepted nickname and the desire to call the partner by name often has the opposite effect. In this lies a demonstration of dissatisfaction and a desire to symbolically mark the distance.

HOLD YOUR TONGUE.  
If you talk about your feelings but don't back it up with real actions, you're sending mixed signals. We react to them painfully because we want honesty from the start, and you call it drama over nothing.
Why it matters. A woman is more critical in her evaluation of a candidate, she needs to feel confident and secure.

LISTEN TO 
You know that if you need to talk, we are there to listen and understand. We want you to listen too, even when the story seems trivial and not worth listening to, and remember what we're telling.
Why it matters. Most men think more abstractly than women and try to generalize information to immediately find the best solution. There is often a mutual misunderstanding. Lack of interest in detail women interprets as inattention and indifference. She often does not expect practical answers, but looks for sympathy and a sense of emotional connection. For a man, help is effective participation and resolution of the situation. Understanding this will help women not demand the impossible, and men become more aware of the emotional request addressed to them.

HOLD OUR HAND  
We care about displays of tactility that don't involve sexual play. We love it when you take our hands in yours.
Why is this important? The position in which a woman leans on her companion's hand is more of a courtesan gesture that suggests respectful distance. The hand in hand is a sign of special closeness, a symbolic message to the world around us: I hold the hand of the one I care about.

TAKE THE INITIATIVE 
We want to feel like you're thinking about us and approach dating in a non-formal way. Come up with something to surprise and delight us. It doesn't always have to involve a significant material outlay. A picnic outdoors, for which you have prepared everything in advance, will please us just as much.
Why is this important? A man who cares about the script of the meetings, thereby denotes leadership, self-confidence and future relations. He achieves the location of a woman and fights to ensure that she stopped her choice exactly on him.

TALK TO US MORE OFTEN 
Write or call us for no reason, we like the attention, wonder how the day is going. It is important to feel that you are thinking of us and waiting for the next meeting.
Why it matters. "The saying 'a woman loves with her ears' reflects that much of the experience is related to the perception of speech. Text messages for women are equivalent to spoken words.

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