Love at a distance: looking for pluses
Long-distance relationships come with many challenges and are doomed to failure in most cases, but they are still possible. Such love has the greatest chance of survival when the period of separation is clearly defined and you have the opportunity to see each other from time to time.

Then the relationship has both an incentive and regular replenishment in the form of rare, but meetings. You have noticed that when you live side by side with a man, feelings become a little dull, even if you are very good together, but it is worth parting at least for a while, and passion flares up with renewed vigor.

Each new meeting after separation is like another honeymoon, and dates and sex are almost like the first time. And this is one of the advantages of love at a distance.

The “pseudo-loneliness” that occurs when you live apart from your loved one also has its advantages - free evenings and weekends can be spent on self-improvement, on a career, learning something that you have long dreamed of, but you didn’t have enough time.

Be sure - your loved one will appreciate it. And, on the contrary, spending all your free time in suffering and thinking about how bad you feel without it is a sure way to lose it. After all, then it turns out that he lives in the present, and you are frozen in your past with him.

Throughout his life, a person develops, grows as a person and changes, and it is extremely interesting to watch this process, especially when it comes to a loved one.

When you live together, these changes happen gradually and you don't always notice them, and when the meetings are rare, you see much more, comparing the old image, left in the memories, with the new one. Yes, you will notice that he has more wrinkles, but he has also become more self-confident, more determined.

In addition, some things are only seen from a distance - you can learn a lot about your partner that you never knew about before. You thought he was completely unromantic, and he started writing you long love letters. You thought he was not persistent enough in achieving his goals, but when he wanted to be near you, he was able to overcome the seemingly insurmountable obstacles and get out to you at least for the weekend. Yes, distance can destroy love, but sometimes it is separation that helps you understand how much you love each other.