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A successful marriage is a building that needs to be reconstructed every day
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The fact is that people change over time: their habits, preferences and preferences become different. The initial love goes away, and in a successful marriage it must give way to mutual respect, willingness to compromise with your partner, the ability to listen to his opinions. The relationship between a man and a woman is not something static. If they are not being built, developed and maintained, then they begin to collapse. Both partners should participate in this "reconstruction" of the relationship, and each of them plays its own special role. It is very important to be aware of each of the details, and to understand what and for what you are doing this time. For me, marriage is a partnership. An equivalent partnership. A very profitable partnership. And I'm not talking about money right now. I'm talking about what we give to each other, what we put into relationships, how we build them. In second place is love. It is on the second. Love is the one that is sung along and across. For which they die and go to certain hardships and feats. Do you want to know why?

Because love, which lasts for years, is very far from sexual attraction. Sexual attraction is only a facet of love. And the core is a partnership, a sense of shoulder on both sides. Two people who are very close in interests, perception of the world, feelings, preferences — begin to live together. The difference in views and tastes eventually erases completely. That is why the spouses become very similar to each other. That is why one only inhales, and the other knows what he will ask. That's how two become one.

So I hope that when we get to know each other better, we will make sure that we are ready for adult relationships and marriage!

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