take the time you never will find one just for you i found one that might possibly love me and be my next bride, take a chance in life nothing will ever change, and youll be lonely for ever, there are no guarantees in life at all, and yes it is hard to find one to stay with you and make a life but it does happen and you can be happy but it does take time and commitment and faithfullness on both sides, many women there think im not real only because i dont write them but would it be fair to the one that might really love me,and i dont want to give any women false hopes about me, when there is so many men to choose from, we take one day at a time, but it takes alot of communications to be able to find the one perfect for you and if you just be honest and really want it youll find that one and only just for you,most of you are looking for someone to come and live with you there, im not sure how many men here can do that, but im not one of them i have a family here and i am obligated to them,some of you are very young and im not sure what your looking for in a man, but i do know they have to be able to keep up with you hahah