In comfortable shoes. With the lipstick color you like, or without lipstick at all. Eat food that you like. Make friends with those who are warm. To be together because you love, not out of a sense of obligation.
A luxurious life is not "because you deserve it". It's about this thing being worthy of you. A cup given by my sister. Father's T-shirt, in which it is so comfortable to fall asleep. Pie according to my mother's recipe. A kiss from a loved one. Interesting books. Good movies. The same songs. Fresh bed linen. Clean apartment. The life you chose yourself.
And a luxurious life is not to beat yourself up when something goes wrong. Tights can tear. The dough may not be suitable. Friends may not want to watch your favorite movie.
A loved one can leave. You may not get a promotion at work. Anything can happen.
If something doesn't work out for you, it doesn't affect your value in any way. It means that right now everything is not going the way you want.
A luxurious life is about being able to choose. Sew torn tights or buy new ones. Throw away the cake and order sushi or try to bake the cake again. Watch a movie alone or go to a cafe with friends. Let go or fight. Search for a new job or review your goals at an old one.
A luxurious life is living by your own rules. Go to your goals. Don't make excuses. Don't be comfortable. Do not make excuses for your choice, your dreams, your interests.
To say: "You can't do that with me."
And say: "I can do it."