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What is the 2-2-2 rule?
There is nothing complicated or revolutionary about the 2-2-2 rule. Each marked digit of the length of time that will help you get closer to your partner.

First two. Every two weeks, plan a romantic date with your loved one on neutral ground. It can be a joint trip out of town, a trip to a restaurant or a picnic in the park. An important condition: the onset of dates should not be other people (friends, or parents of children). It is worth spending time on just one friend with a friend, as it used to be. Such romantic meetings make you feel connected with your partner again - to understand how this person lives, what worries him. In addition, you will most likely be preparing for a date (choosing a special outfit, doing a decent make-up), which means that your choice is a highly favorable chance to see in a new light and beyond the pleasant home decor.

Second deuce. Every two months, plan a joint weekend - you can go to a holiday home or relax in nature with tents. Forget about household chores (they took a few days), work and smartphones. Focus only on relaxing with your partner. A change in the monotonous color and new vivid impressions will enrich the luggage of your relationship. And maybe even encourage interesting experiments. How long have you been trying something new in a position?

Third double. Go on a joint vacation every two years. You should be just the two of you. You can go to a new country or go to a familiar hotel, where you rested during the candy-bouquet period of the relationship, and taking into account many pleasant memories. It is also important that you choose a place of rest and a travel route together with the military. This bringing together factor will help make future vacations with partners and strengthen the relationship between you.

As I said, the "2-2-2 rule" involves the creation of functional rituals - repetitive actions that have symbolic meaning for both partners. According to psychologists, it is these rituals that are the basis of a strong family, which is characterized by emotional closeness and solidarity. Such rituals help establish a certain level of trust and strengthen the bond between partners.

Thus, the “2-2-2 rule” can be called a methodology based on the principles of psychology. And I see no reason not to trust science.

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