An adult man already, as a rule, clearly knows what he wants. The rampage of hormones is long behind, so he appreciates in a woman now not so much external attractiveness, but her inner world. If he is attracted to you, it means that you stand out from the background of your peers in addition to your appearance - you are smarter than them, it is more interesting to communicate with you, it is fun with you, you share his interests, etc.

Such a man will not get involved in clarifying the relationship, zealously proving himself right - he prefers meaningful conversations in which the opinion of each partner is taken into account. He will not leave after an argument, slamming the door, because he is not 20 years old; he would prefer to settle differences peacefully. But he expects exactly the same attitude from his chosen one. A relationship with a mature man has prospects - if you are interested in him, then you can not doubt the seriousness of his intentions.
It is sometimes easier to find a common language with a mature man, because he is ready to listen to you and try to take your place. Of course, quarrels are possible in any couples, no one is immune from this, regardless of age. But still, they will happen much less often and with no less devastating consequences for relations.
I am also not 20 years old, I do not live with rose-colored glasses. I understand what I want and confidently go to my goal, which is why I want a mentally mature man who also shares these views!