In our society there is a common opinion that a man should make the first step when he meets a girl? A man should provide for his woman, that he should be a pillar and a wall of stone for her. Perhaps these "rules" go back to the days of cavemen. When the Neanderthal man grabbed his woman on his shoulder and dragged her into his cave? 😅
But many centuries have passed since then, and as a consequence, the time is already a bit different.
In fact, no one owes anyone anything. Well, in terms of the relationship between a woman and a man. All initiatives and actions should come from pure desire, not because it's necessary.
It is unlikely that a man will like a "one-way game". He also wants to receive signs of attention, a show of affection for him and even courtship. Men, am I wrong? 😉
I'm sure that nothing bad will happen if you yourself ask him out or make him a surprise for nothing. Not because of a holiday of any kind, but because you thought of him and decided that he would definitely like it. Just to give him those positive emotions, which are so often lacking in a man. Become for him a clear ray, in this dark world, and he will want to do everything for you himself, and even more. 🥰


Or maybe you should have left it like in caveman times? Or maybe a lot of people just don't want to bother and they are just "comfortable" not to bother much?