Building trust is much easier than you might think!
Here are some simple tips to help you win your child's trust, build obedience, and help with socialization.
Set for yourself 3 principles for building and developing relationships with your child:
Love.
Love is exactly the feeling that can be the basis of a relationship with a child. It is a necessary basis on which, with the development of relations, upbringing, obedience, care, decency and everything that accompanies the process of growing up a child and developing his relationship with his parents will be built.
Unconditional acceptance.
It is very important to appreciate the child not for any merit, but simply for what he is. Many young parents introduce the principle of equivalence into their relationship with their children: behaved well - I love you, behaved badly - I don’t love you and therefore you are punished. This approach pushes the child to the wrong conclusions. Firstly, to the idea that good behavior has its own cost and you can demand compensation from parents for it. And, secondly, that the love of parents is due to the behavior of the child and there are periods when parents do not love him. All this can cause outbursts of anger and aggression on the part of children. Therefore, to establish a constructive relationship, often remind yourself that you accept and love the child not for something, but unconditionally and independently of anything.
Independence.
In order for the baby to grow up independent, self-confident, it is necessary from an early age to give him the opportunity to make decisions. You can start with ordinary and, at first glance, insignificant things - where will we go (there or here), what will we do (ride a hill or launch boats). Encourage your child to make decisions and gently guide him if suddenly his decisions are “wrong”. This is a very important property of character, which stimulates the emergence of awareness of one's actions and teaches the child the language of arguments.
Where to begin?
Start simple - make it a rule to ask yourself at least once a day if you are following these 3 simple principles when communicating with your baby, and soon you will notice that your relationship has become more organic and it is much easier for you to convey an important message to consciousness child.
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