This question comes up a lot but is never adequately answered. Why are any of us here I may ask? Are we serious or just want to play games, do we have too much time to spend in frivolous activities? Or are we merely using technology to search and find that person we are seeking? I think the answer to these questions will be different for each of us and I decided to post this blog to express my point of view and answer this question.
I am here because I am different, an individual, and I think it is possible with the internet to cross international borders and meet other people without having to travel to them while getting to know them, it expands our world! Through this site we as individuals can get to know something about people on the other side of the world, and get to know them as other souls all searching to meet each other, isn't that a wonderful thing?
I am here because I have not found the mate I seek yet. I would never find so many single attractive women in so many places without this site, I would have to travel constantly and that is expensive and unpractical. I am here because I cannot spend all my time and money traveling, and even then I would miss meeting so many because I am a little shy when it comes to introducing myself to beautiful women!
I am here because I am tired of being single and lonely. I am ready for a relationship and life is so short. This site is a way to make the most of my precious time. It is a way to communicate without pressure and many constraints. I have yet to actually meet anyone on here in person but it is my hope that someday that will happen! And it certainly would not happen if I was NOT here!
I am here because I seek the kind of women that are also here. There is something in common to bring us together here and we can only make that happen if I, and you, are here!
I am here because I am a real person seeking love. I am not here to play games although that is fine for people that want to play games. There are plenty of other sites to play games on, that is not why I am here.
I am here and I am glad that I am here! Isn't that reason enough? To be happy you made the right decision?