A woman should not think about how to answer so as not to offend the man! Think about how to answer so that he understood you! And that, as a rule, is short and straightforward.
A man chooses a woman to woo. A woman chooses a man out of those WHO CARE FOR HER.
It's kind of obvious who's the flower and who's the bee.
All this theory of "ten steps", like in relationships everyone should make a step towards each other and other blah-blah - the song of men who are not used to achieve their own goals.
You see a woman -> you like her -> you act -> you get a response -> you act -> you get a result -> you are proud of yourself.
There it is, a healthy scenario!
- You don't need an initiative from a woman. Just a GREEN LIGHT is enough if she doesn't mind continuing to communicate.
The problem is that a lot of girls don't have the ability to signal this green light. The purpose of the signal is to let the man know, "Yes, I like your advances, go on, let's see what happens next. For some reason the green light is often confused with indifference, complete inaction and even ignoring
#blankindness.
- A green light is our benevolent, deeply respectful, gracious "YES" to a man in response to his actions. That is, your positive response. And also gratitude and a sincere smile.
A green light is PASSIVE INTEREST, while a man's interest in us is ACTIVE.
If you're cold, closed, unapproachable, unemotional, #davaymenzavoy it's kind of uninspiring. Everyone is drawn to the sun, to those with whom it is easy and warm. Men want to bask in our rays, to see an open and happy woman beside them, one who is a pleasure to see them.
- Let's see you tonight at 6!
- I can't.
Not "I can't," but "Thank you for the invitation, I'd love to, but unfortunately, I already have plans."
I would be PLEASE, BUT NOT, you're very sorry. That's the mood, you know, right? The first option is a blow-off, after which wondering, and "why is he missing" is kind of weird.

If a man is not enough of your passive interest, here's a "million pardons," as they say.