Of course, many will appreciate all this on their own and with valor, but still, without the support of chains, it is very difficult. Difficulties in the family circle are not as painful and tangible as problems with alternation are struggling alone. Also, moments of family happiness are experienced with greater effect than those moments that we experience alone, we do not have to share our experiences with anyone and prolong the feeling of happiness.
But how to achieve such a relationship in which there is sorrow and complete joy, and is it possible? The answer is obvious - yes, it is possible, but only in one case: for this it is necessary to sacrifice a part of yourself and push into the background selfishness, arrogance, aggressiveness and many other negative qualities that hinder the development of harmonious relationships. If there are cases when one of the family members sacrifices his interests and principles in the use of another, unfavorable choice, this leads to a private conflict and misunderstanding in the family, since patience has its limits. And this is only a small part of how our negative qualities can be used for the well-being of a life together. A comfortable relationship can be represented as a scale, where one part is your need and personal qualities, and the other is the need of your partner, and in the case of a frequent overbalance of one of the bowls, the comfort and well-being of your relationship falls. For me, harmony and well-being in the family is the ability to push negative qualities into the background and leave as much positive as possible in focus, such as respect for a partner, care, kindness, openness, responsibility, which should cover relationships. However, it is worth noting that such an understanding should be interchangeable and has the status of "principled" in building strong relationships. Before you make your choice, learn more about each other's life, be sure that your partner wants to make you happier and is ready to sacrifice his indications and interests for the sake of achieving coziness and comfort.
What do you think ?
And what is important for you to be alone or love and family????